With Women If you want to know how to pick up girls you need to know that , It’s one thing to go up to a woman and engage them in playful flirting.
It’s quite another to actually have her find you appealing and want to go further with you.
You see, you have to make sure that you’re not just a funny guy that she likes having around. If you do fall into this category with her congratulations you have just found yourself a new best friend; it will never go any further than that though.
When you approach a women for the first time instead of just being funny you’re flirty and funny, that still doesn’t always mean that she will be enticed by you. She may actually flirt back and make sure you feel welcome when you are speaking with her. After all, if there is a guy giving her compliments and some entertainment this can be great fun for her.
You need to be certain that when you are speaking with a woman that you would like to date that you don’t ever fall into this “potential best friend” trap. Once you are classed as the best friend any chance you had of dating her or even sleeping with her are now gone. When you are speaking to a women you must be able to spark some attraction.
There are quite a few ways for building attraction and I’ll be going over several techniques in other posts. However, the first thing to do for creating an attraction is to keep her guessing .
If she is 100% sure about you, that makes you blah and bland. If you are a bit of a mystery to your lady, if you sometimes do something random, if you keep secrets from her (and let her know) and if you send her different signals, that will always make you more interesting and more appealing. If you want to know how to get girls to like you never be bland or boring.
Also, never cater to all her wants and needs. It’s okay to do her a favour every now and then, but never be her servant. In fact, it’s best to come close to giving her what she wants and then take it away again. Even once you start getting more intimate or start kissing her, you can make her a little crazy with desire by always getting a little more intimate with her, then stopping again. You might have heard of this referred to as cat string theory and it works perfectly!