Ask a man if he knows how to flirt with women and more than likely he will come up with a pick up line or two. “Do you come here often?”
is a standard line for any guy, but with lines like that its no surprise that most men fall flat on their face when it comes to chatting up women.
If you want to learn how to chat up women then pay attention to the following tips when picking up women and you will be charming women in no time at all
Treat them mean and keep them keen
Being too nice to a woman is a sure fire way to get blown out. Women are naturally attracted to strong men – it’s in their genes. They want a man who is strong willed and can stand up for himself; If you are too nice then you appear weak and submissive – a definite turn off.
If you want to know how to get girls to like you remember appear a bit cheeky and mysterious and make sure she knows that she if going to have to put some work in too. Women want a wild animal that they can try and tame, so make sure you are that animal.
So you have come across as cheeky and a little mysterious, but what do you do now? You have to keep her off balance and a great way to do this is to contrast this mystery with steadfastness about yourself and you beliefs.
Women hate it when you just echo everything they say. If you have different values and opinions, don’t be afraid to tell her and be totally confident and resolute when you do. Confident men, who aren’t afraid to disagree, are seen as strong in woman’s eyes. As I pointed out earlier – women are naturally attracted to strong men.
The more beautiful a woman is, the more she will have men falling at her feet. So be the man that stands out as the different from all the rest by showing her that you are confident about who you are.
Passing ‘the test’
All the time you are flirting with a woman you are playing a game, and at some point in the game you will have to pass ‘the test’. Women are naturally manipulative, and she will try to get you to do something small but unreasonable. You have to resist the urge to pander to her whim, instead declining in some cheeky or humorous way. Fail this test and you will end up being just another ‘ male friend’ who she only calls when she needs you for something, if at all.
Pass this test and she is all yours. And then next time she asks for something perhaps you might surprise her by agreeing to do it, this time on your terms. She will see you as ‘the perfect gentlemen’.