You see guys that seem to have no issues with getting women to bed, and you wonder why that is? You take a look at yourself, you take a look at them and it makes no sense to you. They don’t look much better than you do. Hey, you might even have a better car, more money in the bank, and all the other things that you’ve heard through the years you need to have to get women into bed with you. Still, it just does not happen to you, but it happens to some guys.
You are never going to get taught how to seduce women unless you take it upon yourself. Unless your dad happens to be Tommy Lee, he probably never told you how to get women into bed. So, you’ve probably listened to a lot of the usual tidbits about what attracts women and took it to heart as being the real deal. How’s that working out for ya?
Here’s why some guys get it and some guys don’t when it comes to getting women into bed with them:
They learn at some point in life to discard almost all of that popular and traditional advice on what attracts women. Most guys who are naturally gifted at getting a woman to want them did so through trial and error. They approached many women, got shot down many times, then took that feedback and realized what tends to work most often and what doesn’t.
Guys who don’t get it are the ones that see firsthand that the traditional advice on what attracts women does not work and keep on trucking along doing the same thing over and over again. They think that it all boils down to luck and that they just happen to be unlucky. It’s not luck. It’s knowing that you need to be able to trigger sexual attraction in a woman and using that attraction to escalate to where things become intimate.
Now that you know why some guys get it and some don’t, here are some tips on how to turn a woman on:
Women get turned on by their emotions way more often than they do just on a guy’s looks. Yes, you can pretty yourself up all you want, but if you don’t trigger the right emotions, then you are not going to get to be intimate with her. So, how do you turn a woman on through her emotions?
In one word, excite her. Make her feel excited about life. Make her feel excited about being around you and being with you. When a woman feels excited around a guy, it changes everything. Suddenly, even if you are not the best looking guy out there, in her eyes… you will be. Even if you don’t have the most money or any material things to impress her… you won’t need them.